There’s a hole in my bucket Dear Liza, Dear Liza
Well fix it Dear Henry, Dear Henry!
Is it really that simple?
Are you a culprit, have you ever thought any of the following?
• If I just loose 5 kilos I’ll be happy, you loose 5 kilos and you’re not. Now you want to do something else.
• If we move we’ll be happy, you move & you’re not.
• I’ll be happy once I change jobs, you change and you’re not.
• I can’t do this now because that needs to be fixed first. You fix it and hello! There is just something else that needs to be fixed first.
It’s important to have goals however it is even more important to celebrate them once the goal is achieved. If you haven’t been satisfied when you achieved them.
Ask yourself this. Think about the answer, you’ll only be lying to yourself.
Have you EVER been satisfied?
Chances are you probably don’t even realise that you haven’t.
Now do you want to know why?
Accountability!
YOU are avoiding the truth. You think by fixing other areas of your life it will make everything better.
But you know what, it won’t.
How do you fix it?
Accountability!
Stop blaming other people &
YOU need to address your core/big issue.
Do you know what it is or how you can fix it?
Be accountable, I know it’s scary and huge and possibly life changing. But is it really as scary as NEVER being satisfied therefore happy?
Food for thought! Eventually maybe it will turn into chicken soup for the soul.